I Hate Goodbyes
May 9th 2007 19:36
Yes, I do. But really, who out there is fond of goodbyes? I reckon we all hate it, but as with everything in life, there will come a time when we have to say goodbye.
I recently lost my eldest brother, it was so sudden. He died of a heart attack, it happened while he was in his office. He was rushed to the hospital where doctors struggled to revive him. But after several agonizing tries, my brother passed away. He was married, a father to two young girls ages 10 and 6.
This shocked our whole family, he was so young, he didn't have a heart diesease. Why? This question reverberated in our hearts even as we laid him to rest. Why?
I guess we will never know the reason why but what happened reminded us all of the fact that life is fleeting and death is imminent. We are all living on borrowed time.
And so each day we must.....
LIVE AS IF IT WERE OUR LAST
DON'T HOLD GRUDGES
LET GO OF OUR ANGER
RECONCILE
SHOW THE PEOPLE AROUND US THAT WE CARE
SHOW THEM WE LOVE THEM
ASK FOR FORGIVENESS
AND BE WILLING TO FORGIVE
STRIVE HARD TO REACH OUR GOALS
BUT BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT WE HAVE
Because the truth is, everything that we thought was important becomes useless when we know it's time to say goodbye.
Yes, I hate goodbyes, and so to my brother I say, so long...'til we meet again.
So long Ed, you will be greatly missed.
This shocked our whole family, he was so young, he didn't have a heart diesease. Why? This question reverberated in our hearts even as we laid him to rest. Why?
I guess we will never know the reason why but what happened reminded us all of the fact that life is fleeting and death is imminent. We are all living on borrowed time.
And so each day we must.....
LIVE AS IF IT WERE OUR LAST
DON'T HOLD GRUDGES
LET GO OF OUR ANGER
RECONCILE
SHOW THE PEOPLE AROUND US THAT WE CARE
SHOW THEM WE LOVE THEM
ASK FOR FORGIVENESS
AND BE WILLING TO FORGIVE
STRIVE HARD TO REACH OUR GOALS
BUT BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT WE HAVE
Because the truth is, everything that we thought was important becomes useless when we know it's time to say goodbye.
Yes, I hate goodbyes, and so to my brother I say, so long...'til we meet again.
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Comment by Tracy
Movies and Life
I'm sorry to hear about your brother, that is awful.
My thoughts are with you,
Tracy
Comment by Ash
Australian Traveller
Flashes of memories
Many warm thoughts to you and your family at this time.
Ash
Comment by charles
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ZCars
Ponderous
Charles.
Comment by Candice
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Comment by Lily
Ars Poetica
thank you for your encouraging words
at a time when to give them wouldn't be easy...
may you be comforted by those who love you...
~Lily
Comment by Hope
Gifted Parenting